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30

May

I approve of this person’s wit and sarcasm but I don’t approve of the fact that this person chose to be kind of a monster bitch in regards to a person who may have been asking a sincere question.
the person didn’t ask “when did you choose to be gay” and it’s common knowledge that many members of the gay community struggle with coming to terms with their own sexuality in a once massively homophobic society. she never took into account that maybe this anon was one of those people and was looking for sincerity and MAYBE a little inspiration/guidance. the anon didn’t go around insinuating that this user is a raging butch dyke or anything remotely offensive like that.
the only purpose this response serves is to make beautifulwistedsimplicity sound spiteful of her own circumstances, as though SHE is the one who’s uncomfortable with her own sexuality.
yeah. response is funny and clever and puts a pin in serious social issues.
we get it, gays. you’re pissed off. i’m pissed off with/for you.
you have my support and a continuously growing number of supporters. homophobia is a taboo in mainstream media. and maybe you have/had the support of that anon, but you know what isn’t gonna help? a cunty attitude.
it doesn’t help that im wired and upset tonight, but shit like this pisses me off because it’s just ignorant people behaving childishly. the goal for equal rights is to end ignorance and abrasive and confrontational actions so that we can bond together as a society that understands one another. it takes BOTH SIDES, people. why do so few understand that? YES. the other side instigates the negativity, but shit like this only perpetuates it.
maybe i’ll lose a few followers for speaking my mind. i’m an open advocate for gay rights, so come at me.
i just don’t like snarky bitches who hinder their own cause, especially when i’m on their side. 
it makes ME look bad, nevermind them.
PS: i’m one of the most sarcastic people i know, so what the fuck does this say about how i feel about “equal” treatment. jesus. you want equal/civil rights? act with civility where it is deserved and respond with equal sarcasm where it is earned. this anon deserved better. for all you fucking know, you scared him/her back into the closet. god damn.

I approve of this person’s wit and sarcasm but I don’t approve of the fact that this person chose to be kind of a monster bitch in regards to a person who may have been asking a sincere question.

the person didn’t ask “when did you choose to be gay” and it’s common knowledge that many members of the gay community struggle with coming to terms with their own sexuality in a once massively homophobic society. she never took into account that maybe this anon was one of those people and was looking for sincerity and MAYBE a little inspiration/guidance. the anon didn’t go around insinuating that this user is a raging butch dyke or anything remotely offensive like that.

the only purpose this response serves is to make beautifulwistedsimplicity sound spiteful of her own circumstances, as though SHE is the one who’s uncomfortable with her own sexuality.

yeah. response is funny and clever and puts a pin in serious social issues.

we get it, gays. you’re pissed off. i’m pissed off with/for you.

you have my support and a continuously growing number of supporters. homophobia is a taboo in mainstream media. and maybe you have/had the support of that anon, but you know what isn’t gonna help? a cunty attitude.

it doesn’t help that im wired and upset tonight, but shit like this pisses me off because it’s just ignorant people behaving childishly. the goal for equal rights is to end ignorance and abrasive and confrontational actions so that we can bond together as a society that understands one another. it takes BOTH SIDES, people. why do so few understand that? YES. the other side instigates the negativity, but shit like this only perpetuates it.

maybe i’ll lose a few followers for speaking my mind. i’m an open advocate for gay rights, so come at me.

i just don’t like snarky bitches who hinder their own cause, especially when i’m on their side. 

it makes ME look bad, nevermind them.

PS: i’m one of the most sarcastic people i know, so what the fuck does this say about how i feel about “equal” treatment. jesus. you want equal/civil rights? act with civility where it is deserved and respond with equal sarcasm where it is earned. this anon deserved better. for all you fucking know, you scared him/her back into the closet. god damn.

(Source: beautifultwistedsimplicity)

21

Jan

Dear Gays of The World,

I AM NOT GAY.

Please, don’t misunderstand. I completely love and support your kind. Your sexual orientation is not a crime, an abomination, or wrong in my eyes. And I find your compliments and advances and propositions wildly flattering. But PLEASE understand that I am RIDICULOUSLY HETEROSEXUAL. YES, I like to dress well and clean myself up. But it’s not for YOU. It’s for females.

I’m glad many of you think I’m “sexy” or “hot” or “cute” enough to constantly try to convince me that I am gay, but BELIEVE me when I say that I’m not a closet case. And it’s not denial. I’m a hopeless romantic, and I’ve felt unbearable attraction (romantic and sexual) but never towards a MAN. I will gladly be your friend. I’m not a homophobe by any stretch of the imagination. But you guys can NOT keep telling me that you KNOW you’re gonna “get some of” this, and you can’t keep coming on to me with such persistence after I’ve made it clear that I’m in to and into women. If anything, it’s a total turn off and at this rate will influence me to avoid gay company. And that’s not fair to anyone, because I love my gay friends very dearly.

And don’t use the “how can you know if you’ve never tried it?” thing. Did you have sex with a girl first and then decided you’d try a guy next because something felt wrong? MAYBE. MAYBE you did. But I don’t have to because I legitimately enjoy vaginal intercourse. I’ve kissed my fair share of boys just to humor them or on a drunk dare, but I promise you that they only further convinced me of my hetero status.

gays: i love you , just not with my body. nor will i ever love you with my body. not because i’m closeted. not because i’m afraid. but because i know who i am, just like you know who you are. please respect that.

pdbaz